We’re getting married!!
10.10.25
“Our ceremony will be a small and intimate gathering. If you’ve received an invitation, you’ll find everything you need to know below.
Because we’re keeping our ceremony intimate, not everyone we love could be invited. Please know it wasn’t personal—we’d still love for you to celebrate with us in other ways. More details are below.
Our Story
Every great story begins with, what if?
Ours began with: What if two planners, both in love with the color blue, accidentally stumbled into each other’s lives and realized God had been stiching their story together all along?
It started at a dinner party. Friends had been plotting this introduction, but travel and timing kept getting in the way. Finally, the night came. He walked in. She spotted him and had him cornered in the kitchen, firing off questions like an eager reporter. He thought, “Intense…but pretty cute.” She thought, “Closed off…but wait—watches? Okay, now we’re talking.”
There were sparks—small ones at first, like the flicker of a match. But then came the moments that felt different. A Passover dinner. A wave goodnight in a parking lot. A first date planned with intentionality that said, “I see you. I care.” That’s when the flame started to glow.
From there, their story unfolded in scenes that could have been straight out of a Pixar short:
• Dancing under Oklahoma stars after meeting family for the first time.
• Eating snacks on top of a parking garage while the sun painted the sky.
• Driving until hunger hit and stumbling into a little country diner.
• Making candles for each other before a long trip, so distance would smell a little less lonely.
Somewhere between the sunsets, prayers before bed, clean-kitchen nights, and long drives with music turned up, it became clear: this wasn’t just a story. This was their story.
Then came the proposal—every film has its big, sweeping adventure moment. For them, it was blue. Their favorite color, their secret motif. A blue dress. A blue helicopter. A ride through the sky retracing the places that had become sacred. And finally, a bridge—their bridge. The one from their very first date, now closed off and waiting for just them.
With friends hidden at both ends, an X marking the spot, and a heart pounding like the soundtrack to the climactic scene, he got down on one knee. She burst into sweet tears, hugged him so fast she nearly forgot the ring, and then remembered: Oh right. The sparkly part.
But the real sparkle was never the diamond. It was the peace. The deep, steady, God-given peace that said: This is the plan. This is home.
Now, they’re dreaming big—about ranches filled with discipleship, traveling the world hand-in-hand, sharing pasta (their first meal and their engagement night meal), and chasing sunsets forever.
Our Family’s Purpose
We are called to be a family rooted in Christ,
filled with love, joy, prayer, & discipleship.
To Create a home for the homesick
where they feel safe, encouraged, & equiped
to live a life to the full.
Our Family’s Verse
Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.
Deuteronomy 6v4–9
Registry
We’re so grateful for your love and support as we step into this new season! Even if you weren’t able to be with us in person, it means the world to know you’re celebrating with us from afar. If you’d like to give a gift, we’ve set up a few options: a traditional registry (link below). Or you can give towards some of our projects to help us begin our next chapter—our Honeymoon Fund, a House Remodel Fund, and a fund for Printing Wedding Photos to display as art in our home.
If you would like to ship something directly to us, you can via the address below.
Name: Tory and Annika (Gift)
Address: 5103 S Sheridan STE 513 Tulsa, OK 74145 United States
Thank you!
We would be nothing without our amazing community around us. We could not be more excited for this next season of our lives as we start our family and could not be more expectant to see what God does in us and through us as we bring the Kingdom of Light near.